Are you planning on going backpacking with your boyfriend or girlfriend? Are you worried about the effects and strain that travel might have on your relationship?
Travel can put a lot of pressure on a relationship, spending all day everyday together can cause rifts over tiny meaningless things. Traveling together can also be a great test , if you can come through the long journey together unscathed you may well have a very special relationship.
We have some pointers to help the course of love to run smooth on the road.
Just Relax
It is stressful enough organising travel, running for trains and generally backpacking around so it’s a good idea to get into a more relaxed state of mind early on. If you miss the bus for example just chill there will be another one on it’s way, if not you can simply travel somewhere else. If you find yourself or your partner stressing about these issues it’ll add extra strain on your relationship and ultimately one of you will eventually snap.
Take Some Time Apart
You may have gone traveling together but that doesn’t mean that you have to spend all your time together. It’s a good idea to take a break from each other from a while, even the best of friends find it difficult to spend 24 hours in each others pockets. Go for a stroll down the beach or check out the local markets with a friend. Having a break will make you more appreciative of the time you do spend together.
Make New Friends
Don’t be afraid to be open to meeting new friends on the road, some couples tend to keep to themselves and miss out on meeting some interesting and like-minded people. Having only one other person to talk to whilst traveling can soon grate and it’s great to chat to other people who you will usually have a lot in common with.
Travel Apart
If you are going on a long trip for six months or more, you may consider taking some time apart. Perhaps you want to visit the coast while your partner really wants to climb the huge volcano in the north. Going your separate ways and meeting up again on your journey can make you appreciate your partner all the more. Traveling separately isn’t a sign of a bad relationship but in many cases of a strong one.
Travel can be difficult at the best of times, unlike traveling with people you meet along the way you can’t choose to leave your partner on a whim.
The stress of the road can result in arguments and disagreements but over all it is truly a great test of any relationship. If you can work as a team whilst backpacking it may well be a good sign for the future.
